A fabulous Kitchen

Browsing through Martha Stewart's site I fell upon her gorgeous kitchen, The beige walls against the Grey kitchen and the center bench more like a table, the crockery filled shelves is my favorite look in kitchens today. I spent all day yesterday cleaning my kitchen and wonder how many times a week I wipe down my white kitchen doors, notice a few chips on my new stone bench (they take no care) and the dishes that the kids have put away "not clean enough" the smoothie maker just rinsed but not clean...shall I go on....Mothers out there do you sympathise with me? Any way every piece in my kitchen was spotless and after 6 hours of cleaning they all came home from school hungry and totally oblivious to all my hard work made a mess and I just had to walk away I couldn't look, arrggg...